I've been reading about all this sexual harassment and wonder why I never got any. Ha, I was overweight as a teenager and lacked any attention from the opposite sex. After I lost weight, one day I was walking along a street in a not too great a neighborhood and somebody whistled at me. I was thrilled. It had been a pretty sad adolescence with no experience with dating of any kind and no understanding of how to react to attention from boys when I finally became attractive to them. As a result I was hungry for any kind of interaction and allowed intercourse to happen easily although I never got pleasure from it.
I had masturbated ever since I could remember although I had no idea what it was. I just knew If I put my fists between my legs I would get this pleasure or release that would allow me to fall asleep. After I got married and didn't have this happen during intercourse and tried to talk to my husband about it. He just said he couldn't talk about "feelings." Finally one night it happened that I came with him. All I knew was this overwhelming feeling of love and thought now it would happen all the time. But it didn't. I didn't understand the mechanism or how I could talk to him about it. I guess I just cried which enforced his not being able to talk about it. I guess we both didn't understand and at that time female orgasms was not something talked or written about.
